Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Interesting...

So I saw this on my Yahoo homepage today and thought I'd share it with you guys! Soooo, what do you think, have you found The One yet?!?! haha!! its hilarious but enjoyable to read

The Indications:

So chances are, there is more than one person out there who fits the bill for you. All of them are less than perfect. But if there are no perfect partners, how can you know whether to stay or go? Here are 10 relationship markers to help you know if he or she is The One:

1. When you're together you feel like you've come home.

2. You feel like your partnership was meant to be, as if kissed by destiny.

3. In your communication with each other there is a rapid "knowing" of what each of you means.

4. You have a shared mission in life, perhaps a cause, a career, or the creation of a family life.

5. When you're together the world seems like a better place.

6. Your mood is elevated when you're together. It's not necessarily passion or excitement, although that's there too at times.

7. When you look at him/her you see a part of yourself that's been missing. Perhaps it's her assertiveness or his joy of adventure. But it's something that when added to your life, makes you feel more complete.

8. Being together makes you more hopeful about the future you are creating.

9. You can be more authentic and fully yourself around your partner.

10. Being together makes each of you work harder on overcoming bad habits and becoming more loving people.

Don't worry if you don't feel all 10 of these things when you're with your partner. That's where the imperfection comes in -- either in you or your partner. If you are experiencing six or more of these markers, chances are you are matched well. Over time you can work towards having all of these qualities. Couples who have lasting love find that their relationships get closer and better over time. And that process has been my privilege and good fortune to experience personally -- after a lot of hard work that continues to this day!

Bottom line: your chances of finding The One are better than you think. So go out there and start looking. Love almost always comes in a surprise package that opens up in marvelous and magical ways.

Thursday, July 22, 2010

New Me....

I guess for awhile now, I have been doing some major revamping on who I am...And for the most part I think that there have been some positive changes in my life. In the past few months, I have decided to rid my life of the negativity, that I should stand for something before I fall for everything.

Life has been an uphill battle, but at the same time, everything that has happened has only made me who I am today as well as a stronger person. I won't be the person who will sit back and let things slide, because I am stronger than that and learned that lesson too many times.

Too much in life we hold onto the past struggling to make things the way they were because were comfortable in that state of mind, however learning to take on new challenges seems to be exciting. I'm learning that settling is not something that I should ever have to do, because I am worth what I put into myself.

If you always make the choice and feel like it is not the right one, maybe re-evaluation is something that you should take into consideration.

Don't take things for granted, one day it might mistake you for easy.